Celebrating the Holidays with Balance: Finding Joy, Gratitude, and Sensitivity in Times of Togetherness and Loss
The holiday season, encompassing Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year's, is traditionally a time for family gatherings, expressions of gratitude, and shared joy. However, for those grieving the loss of loved ones, these celebrations can be particularly challenging. Balancing festivity with sensitivity is essential to ensure that the holidays are emotionally, psychologically, physically, and spiritually healthy for everyone involved.
Emotional and Psychological Well-being
Engaging in positive interventions, such as practicing gratitude and savoring joyful moments, can enhance emotional regulation during the holidays. These practices help individuals manage their emotions effectively, fostering a more positive outlook (Quoidbach et al., 2015). For those experiencing grief, acknowledging and expressing feelings is crucial. Participating in family bereavement interventions can provide support and address specific needs, facilitating healing during this sensitive time (Henning et al., 2021).
Physical Health
Maintaining physical health during the holidays involves balancing indulgence with mindful choices. Incorporating regular physical activity, such as family walks or engaging in winter sports, can promote well-being. Additionally, ensuring adequate rest and managing stress through relaxation techniques contribute to overall health.
Spiritual Well-being
For many, the holidays hold profound spiritual significance. Engaging in religious or spiritual practices, such as attending services, meditating, or reflecting on personal beliefs, can provide comfort and a sense of purpose. These practices offer opportunities for connection and introspection, enriching the holiday experience.
Supporting Those Experiencing Loss
Sensitivity towards individuals grieving during the holidays is paramount. Creating an inclusive environment where they feel comfortable expressing their emotions is essential. Offering support, listening without judgment, and acknowledging their feelings can make a significant difference. Encouraging participation in family traditions while also respecting their need for space helps balance inclusion with personal boundaries.
At Southwest Therapeutics, we understand the complexities of navigating the holiday season, especially for those dealing with loss. Our team is dedicated to providing compassionate support and resources to help individuals and families find balance and healing during this time. If you or someone you know needs assistance, please reach out to us:
· Phone: 575-936-4227 (Office) or 575-519-8579 (After Hours)
· Email: [email protected]
· Address: 1419 Santa Barbara St, Deming, NM 88030
References
Henning, E., Germann, J. N., Holder, N., Nakonezny, P., Loftin, S., Redondo-Doan, B., Jones, L., Petty, L. A., Pratt, C., Garza-Saenz, M., Isaacs, T., Liu, K., & Winick, N. (2021). The impact of family bereavement interventions: Qualitative feedback identifies needs. Clinical Practice in Pediatric Psychology, 9(3), 283–295. https://doi.org/10.1037/cpp0000416
Quoidbach, J., Mikolajczak, M., & Gross, J. J. (2015). Positive interventions: An emotion regulation perspective. Psychological Bulletin, 141(3), 655–693. https://doi.org/10.1037/a0038648